Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Acrobats

China is known for its amazingly flexible tiny women, dangling plates on their nose while scratching their ears with their toes. They master their art so well that everything looks easy and fluid.  It reminds me: When I was young(er), my dad proceeded to copy a move he just saw on TV, and ended up on the floor with a blocked back!
In fact, we have a bunch of these young contortionists living just around the corner, at the Beijing Chaoyang Theatre who hosts the Flying Acrobatic Show (check their site for awesome pictures). Pauli took me there last year for my birthday. The show in not only having a number of young girls (some very young) folding themselves and putting a number of plates in equilibrium. There are a number of acts with boys or girls flying on top of one another, or running in some kind of gigantic hamster wheel (my favorite), of contortions in equilibrium on a dangling plank, or of human pyramids on rolling bikes with plates dangling on top of their nose. 
This year, I brought Noam there to impress him, hoping he could sit through the whole show. And he did!  It was priceless to see his eyes wide open for the 90 minutes of the show!  And of course, as a good little boy, once we returned home he attempted a few of his own version of the show. Now he climbed out of his crib for the first time yesterday afternoon... Ah! (My nights will be even more doomed now...)










Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry Christmas / Joyeux Noël / 圣诞节快乐

A tree to make kids smile...

Oysters and champagne, a maple-glazed turkey (delayed but still tasty) and its nut and cranberry stuffing, a "tourtière" (traditional Québec meat pie), a mushroom pie, mash potatoes, aspargus, a savory feta cheese herb loaf and a fresh endive salad and the table is set. A layered creamy apple spice cake, a gingerbread house for the kids (a hoot!) and a pie to top off our indulging bellies. Kids opening their presents and braking the roof of the gingerbread house, and our friends toasting to our blessings!
Joyeux Noël!


Sunday, December 20, 2009

Hannukah's Candles

The holiday season here in Beijing is long and filled with fun. It starts with Hanukkah, the Jewish festival of light. Day after day, for 8 days, candles are lit, one additional light on each night of the holiday. It is the commemoration of rededication of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem, in 2nd century BC (thanks Wiki).
For Hanukkah, we had not 8 but 9 candle lighting!!! Well, I should say that we missed the first lighting at the Chabad because we got delayed in traffic. And we lit the last and the supplemental ones with some friends. As Pauli was away for most of the week, and since I do not know those songs yet, I could only wait for some more experienced folks. Next year, maybe we will do better use of our hanukkiah.
In any cases, needless to say that kids love it. And that the best part are Manor's freshly home made sufganiots, those sweet donuts! Yummy!







Monday, December 7, 2009

Pauli Tours Rural China

Pauli has to go on mission in the field again and again (in small places all over mainland China), as he is managing several projects all over the country. His projects are mainly dealing with rural infrastructure, water distribution systems, water treatment plants, road infrastructures, etc. He is not only away from home, he is on the road for several days at times, visiting one village after another, meeting people working on the projects, local authorities and the WB counterparts. And he sees so much more of China than me that I feel it is only fair to share some of his travel pictures here with you.
These have been taken in the Shaanxi province, in a small village. Electrification has been done all over China several decades ago, as it was a sign of progress. Despite that, water services are still lacking in many small villages and this is a great change for these people. In the photos, the villagers held a parade and colorful banners held in recognition of the work done by the team. Note the canon that was pulled out to throw some thankful fireworks!




Sunday, December 6, 2009

Donkey Bites

When strolling around Beijing, it is easy to miss some interesting little treasures, well hidden behind some concrete buildings, around a courtyard, or deep into a hutong (alleys). And Beijing is notorious for the rate of its change, where business turn around here is faster than seasonal weather patterns. Since our arrival here, about a year ago, we have witness several store openings and closures in and around our compound. A few months and what looked like a successful business is boarded up, without notice, final sales or information. Then a few weeks or months later a new business opens in the same space, with more or less the same concept or menu, but different owners and/or new decor. Strolling around our neighborhood again and again is then not so boring after all, as there is always the possibility to find something new. That said, once in a while it is great to get out of our city corner and explore a bit.
So last weekend we took our double stroller and zigzagged across the city to find a museum. Our visit was interesting but brief - Noam oblige. After our tour, we headed out to the street, in search of a meal for the little insatiable belly.
After pushing our stroller on the narrow sidewalks of this area of the city we made our choice to this specific restaurant.



We based our choice on the following criteria: Lots of customers as a sign of a possible tasty find. Sufficient space for a double stroller. Not a hot pot (it does not work well with toddlers). And well, salubrity, but that is sometimes difficult to see from outside or without visiting the kitchens. We had given up trying to find restaurants with high chairs before starting our search.
But here in Beijing, when outside our territory (read the areas where loads of expatriates are living), the problem is not only about the lack of high chairs. The thing is we are completely illiterate (yes, despite the countless hours of Chinese lessons) and it brings its share of surprises. So IF I knew how to read in Chinese well, I would have known. But with my limited knowledge I could only understand: Royal Fatty Something Meat. Or maybe The Fat King Something Meat. I guess I could have assumed that the meat in question would be something close to a horse, as the symbol 马 is contained in the symbol 驴. But who knows, right?!

So we got in, parked the stroller, settled as much as possible everyone on the tiny stools and started pointing at the food on the neighbours tables (our best way to make sure of getting something we know - at least in looks). Then we noticed the pretty pictures lined up on the walls, and started wondering. Can it be? Are we really going to eat donkey?


In fact, I have to admit, in good carnivorous as I am, I had no shame. I have enjoyed horse meat countless amount of times while living in Switzerland, and in my opinion this type of meat is probably less prone to being fed hormones and other nasty things... So why not donkey? And the truth is, in this little joint, the food was extremely tasty, each dish just perfectly prepared (and I am not a fan of Chinese food, so it is to say how good it was). Among the several dishes we ordered, we tried some kind of mini sandwich, made out of a deep fried bread, stuffed with some green leafy vegetables and some tender meat. Noam devoured his little sandwich so fast (usually he plays with food). Pauli ordered a few more of them (and he is vegetarian at times)...

I hope we cuold find more places like these around our neck of the woods!!!

For the curious and the adventurous, you can find this restaurant near the Xu Beihong Memorial, located 53 Xinjiekou, in the Xicheng District. From the museum, you walk a little south on Xinjiekou and turn left on a winding street filled with restaurants. The Royal Fatty Donkey Meat Restaurant is on the south side of the street, a few doors from the intersection.
This is the addres in Chinese of the memorial: 徐悲鸿纪念馆, 地点:新街口, 西北二环内, 100035西城区新街口北大街53号.

Enjoy!

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Boys

NO! I am not jealous! I am really happy to have a little brother. I love giving kisses to my new little brother. When I wake up I worry about where he might be. When he is lying down on his bed I want to lie down with him. When he is eating I want to cuddle with mommy too. When he is in the stroller I like to pat his belly and even tried to climb in with him (and fell down as the stroller tipped over). No I am not jealous! But I really would like more time with mommy, specially when he starts crying. I also need my diaper changed, or I need to go potty, often when baby needs to be changed.
I am a big boy now! I help mommy cook. I can water the plants. I am able to put my coat on by myself! I am so proud.
I am a big boy now! I am able to climb into my bed by myself. I don't need a nap most days, now. I want to stay up later to play with mommy and abba, and I wake up earlier to get a maximum amount of time with them.
I am a big boy now! I go to school every day, and I have many friends there. I love to go to school but sometimes I would like mommy to come and play with me there. And I hate when my abba goes traveling for several days in a row.
I am a big boy now. I try hard, but walking far is hard. Waiting for a meal is hard. I am a big boy now and I can say what I want and what I don't want. But at times, I am not always sure to know what I want, it is really hard to have to make choices. But I am sure I want TV, my stuffed Elmo, my doudou, my trains... I don't always know what to do but it is easier to collapse in tears on the floor and wait for mommy or daddy to help. It seams to work so far.
Yeah, I am now big enough to get in bed by myself, and soon to get out of there also. I am really looking forward. I will then be a really big boy and party all night!



Monday, November 2, 2009

Back To Beijing

Our tour in and out of DC was faster than we could have possibly imagined it. Returning to Beijing was a long - in fact a very very long - trip, but it was a pleasure to see Noam enjoying again his little world - toys, friends, kindergarten - while we were all happy to settle back into some kind of routine.
Avi, a friend from Israel arrived a few days after us. He enjoyed with us this wonderful first snow of year. Our garden was transformed, and it was fun to enjoy the crisp air and the wonderful view. Avi was proof to us that parenting is fun. Noam was delighted by the entertainment; Emmanuel fell asleep countless amount of time in his arms... Now we are hoping he comes back soon to visit us...


Thursday, October 29, 2009

DC moments

A new boy is in town, family and friends travel to meet him, and to entertain the big bro...



Laura, our true god-sent Cinderella, helping us always with a smile



Adi, Noam's buddy for our DC stay



Boaz is good at telling stories



Kerstin and Norbert, without whom we would not have been able logistically



Yamani and Noam contemplating street action



Grand-papa trying to find common traits



Does not get bothered by much - as long as food is there



Photogenies



Safda was the first one to hold Emmanuel

Monday, September 28, 2009

Emmanuel has joined us

Some people find their own way to enter life in a remarkable manner. Emmanuel certainly tried his best to make his arrival amazingly outstanding.
First he chose to land here on the same date as his big brother's birthday, Noam's. How often is that happening? No so much, it appears, we were told by his pediatrician.
Even better, Emmanuel jumped into life on the evening of the Yom Kippur. In the Jewish tradition, as it is the holiest day of the year, it is quite a special gift to be born on such date. So Emmanuel managed well this one too...
And to add to his early achievements, Emmanuel was born with only the help of his dad and a nurse, as the doctors never made it on time to the delivery room (even though I was in labour for a really really long time!!)

Bravo Emmanuel!!











Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Cover Girl

Earlier some found me in a Beijing expat magazine, Beijing Kids, showing off my yoga skills.
In the same vein, once they learned I was pregnant, BK asked me to be their cover girl. I guess this is my closest call to fame...

So I am now officially the September girl! And for those wondering, I am assuming that I am the "out" of the "ins and outs of giving birth in Beijing" as this shot was taken a few days before headed out to DC to hatch baby number 2.

Monday, August 17, 2009

One Child Policies : Not Everyone is Concerned

There are several things we think we know about China, but that we in fact do not understand well. The One-Child policy is one example. I am bringing this topic up as recently various events prompted my interest.

A few days ago, a worker came to our house to fix our table. As usual, our conversation topics, limited by my failing Mandarin skills, turned around my son. After answering the regular set of questions, I prompted him with similar ones. I was very surprised to hear that he had two children of different ages (thus not twins). My curiosity aroused, I asked him if he had two wives. He laugh and went on a long explanation that I could not understand fully.

So I conducted my own personal research about the One-Child Policy and its implementation.

Introduced in the late 70's to control the rising numbers of the Chinese population. It was intended to alleviate social, economic and environmental problems that would only increase if the population was allowed to grow at its original pace - which was of about 5 children per women. The Chinese government said it has since prevented more than 400 million birth. Its critics are saying that it is responsible for the high girl abortion rate, force sterilizations, and the population's gender imbalance.

The policy is mainly enforced by heavy fines based in relationship to the families income. In addition, the government carries out inspection and registration work (subtext here reads as in some instances you might have to present certificate of non-pregnancy, or be obliged to disclose contraceptive measures used). Families can choose to brake the rules of the policies, but the costs, not only financial, are enormous for a middle class citizen. Parents who are civil servants will most likely loose their jobs and titles. The family has to pay for the education of the child, but also for the health care of all the members of the family. Children born illegally, who are not registered will be denied a Hukou (family registration), education, a national ID and probably many more things a regular Chinese citizen might need to make his way into life. The Hukou determines what and where a person can do in life.

As I was asking questions around, and reading here and there, I came to realise that the One-Child Policy does not always apply. Supposedly, as per the information provided by the Committee of the One-Child Policy, only 35,9% of the Chinese population is concerned by the restriction.

There are several different types of exceptions. Families issued from one of the 26 official minorities are granted exceptions from that rule. Tibetans, Uyghurgs, and many other less known minorities can benefit from this exception. In most rural areas, families who have as first child a daughter can have a second child. For example, Henan is a province with such exception. Second children are subject to birth spacing (usually 3 or 4 years apart). This came as a possible solution to the massive girl abortion and girl orphan rates in the rural areas. These rates are specially high as a boy is not only the heir of the family but also a social insurance for the old age of the parents (as opposed to a girl who will go live with her in laws). The second-child exception was also proposed as the practice of the adult child taking care of its aging parents and grandparents was becoming difficult to bear by one single individual. Indeed, the one-child policy leaves the older generation with more of a dependency on retirement funds or charity, as the state welfare is limited and sometimes failing.

Recently, in the regions affected by the 2008 Sichuan earthquake, families who lost their child, or those who were disabled or severely injured were given exception from the policy. It is a specially significant policy, as more than 23 000 children went missing after the earthquake. Recently, children both issued from a single child family are now allowed to have two children. Finally, children returning from abroad are not subject to the policy. And children born abroad from Chinese parents and not seeking Chinese citizenship are also excepted. Since early 2007, there was some talk in the PRC to abolish the one-child rule or to at least soften it to a two-children policy.

We can think of several consequences due to these policies. They are not all bad, neither all good. The deep core of the issue is related to the control of the population, and comes with negative connotations. But we might want to ask ourselves how could such a large country, with such a large population, could alleviate most of its citizens from poverty over three decades, if not partially thanks to its population control?

On the other hand, today kids are treated like "little emperors"... Already at the root a family centered society, in the single child family, the child easily become over-indulged or spoiled. For us, our experience of life in Beijing has translated as an easy one, where our child is surrounded, appreciated, and given attention as we would never have expected. Despite all this attention and the criticisms of a spoiled generation, as the first generation of one-child policy children (born in the 1980s) reaching adulthood, it is difficult to see that they are less equipped for life in general.

As for us, now that I am pregnant again, I see envious glances in our direction. Family values are still running high. Old ladies congratulate us proudly for taking on an extension to ours. They even ask us for when would be the third one!!! Until I give birth, we can only offer them a smile, feeling blessed by our freedom of choice.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Noam is (almost) 2! Let's celebrate!

We are about to leave for a few months, and we are expecting to be busy on Noam's birthday, on Sept 27. We thought it would be more fun to celebrate his birthday here in Beijing with some of his best friends (and ours too!). The program was great: the kids made their chef hats, prepare their pizza, ate them and then played some games. And of course there was a cake! Here are a few picts so you can share the moment with us!
Happy Birthday big boy!